Saturday, July 26, 2025

What I Find Is A Reflection of My Own Heart

"Every 'first' drink afterwards did exactly the same trick - I could feel it go right through every bit of my body and down to my very toes.  I was never a hilarious drunk; the more I drank the quieter I got, and the drunker I got the harder I fought to stay sober.  So it is clear I never had any fun out of drinking (Ed. Note: the italics are mine) - I would be the soberest-seeming one in the crowd and all of a sudden I'd be the drunkest."  Big Book

I know the sensation.  I was not a falling down drunk.  I was a steady drinker with a serious capacity for containing my alcohol.  It wasn't so much fun as it was pain relief and excitement.  I wanted to feel different, excited when I was calm and chill when I was jacked.  I just wanted to be someone else somewhere else.

The circumstances of my life are governed by the spirit I bring to the day.  What I find is a reflection of my own heart.  When I pay attention to understanding my own heart I begin to grow in a skillful response of wisdom and compassion and I can do my part to make the whole of the earth peaceful.


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