More wisdom from the Cherokees. More emphasis on balance and perspective. Once I started looking for this mindset I began to see it everywhere, especially in spiritual thought. Not too high and not too low. It's not going to be as bad as you imagine it's going to be and it won't be as great, either.
Pride: A feeling of deep pleasure or satisfaction drives from one's own achievements, the achievements of those with whom one is closely associated, or from qualities or possessions that are widely admired.
In psychology pride is often divided into two categories: Authentic Pride which is characterized by words such as accomplished or confident, and Hubristic Pride, characterized by words such as arrogant and conceited. One is associated with self-esteem; the other with narcissism. The Bible calls pride extreme love of oneself and warns that pride goes before a fall. I can use pride to push myself to achieve things that I find valuable and that impress others in society which increases my prestige in a social hierarchy. We are, after all, very social creatures, we humans. And I can use pride to dominate and intimidate those around me, to gain power and prestige. Often there's a little bit of both in play. If I want to run a marathon but I'm smoking a pack and a half of cigarettes a day then I can imagine the pride I would feel if I quit smoking and start to run, to train, and then to feel a tremendous sense of self-worth once I've completed the marathon. Without pride in myself I wouldn't put in the effort. Then I have to be careful not to talk about my accomplishments incessantly or to belittle someone who runs a half-marathon. It's okay to be proud of myself but it's unseemly to be too proud of myself.
See? The concept of right-in-the-middle again.