Defect: A fault or malfunction.
I'm an expert marksman when it comes to Fault Finding. I can see a defect at 1000 yards. I find that I really have to watch myself when it comes to other people's defects. I'm a little too capable when it comes to other people's defects. I can't acknowledge a wonderful quality in someone else - it's a little too much work.
What's funny about this is that I'm very sensitive to criticism from someone else about my character defects. The hair stands up on the back of my neck and I go into full fight mode. I deny and then I attack. I find it very effective in the short term to try to turn the discussion around so that the topic is your defects.
Sunday, July 6, 2014
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